There comes a time when many families face hard decisions – divorce, legal separation, or the loss of a loved one. These moments are emotional, often painful, and sometimes lead to disagreements that feel overwhelming.
Many of us would rather avoid the drama and hardship a divorce can cause, especially when living in a small community.
Here’s the good news: You don’t have to go to court to resolve every dispute.
Mediation offers a peaceful, private, and more affordable way to work through these deeply personal issues – and it often leads to better outcomes for everyone involved.
What Is Mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary and confidential process in which a neutral third party, the mediator, helps both sides reach a mutually acceptable agreement.
Unlike a judge, a mediator doesn’t make decisions for you. Instead, they guide the conversation, keep things respectful, and help everyone focus on what matters most: finding solutions that work for your family.
How Does the Mediation Process Work?
Here’s what to expect if you decide to pursue mediation with our help:
- Initial Agreement: Both parties agree to try mediation. It’s a voluntary process, but both sides must be willing to participate in good faith.
- Choosing the Mediator: You’ll work with a mediator – like The Law Office of Lisa Marie Fraas – as the third party who understands the emotional and legal nuances of family disputes.
- Information Gathering: The mediator will meet with both parties to understand the issues, concerns, and goals.
- Identifying Interests: The mediator helps uncover not just legal positions, but personal interests – what each party truly needs to feel heard, respected, and fairly treated.
- Negotiation and Problem-Solving: With guidance, both sides explore practical solutions and possible compromises.
- Reaching an Agreement: Once a solution is reached, it’s written up and can be reviewed by attorneys. If desired, it can be made legally binding and submitted to the court.
Why Choose Mediation?
Let’s take a closer look at why mediation is especially helpful in sensitive family matters.
Divorce & Legal Separation
Mediation can be a lifeline for couples navigating the end of a marriage. Rather than battling in court, mediation helps couples:
- Sort out property, finances, and debts
- Create parenting plans and custody arrangements
- Maintain civility – especially important when children are involved
Mediated divorces tend to be less expensive, quicker, and less emotionally damaging than traditional court proceedings.
Estate and Inheritance Disputes
After the death of a loved one, emotions run high, and it’s not uncommon for family members to disagree over wills, trusts, or the division of assets. Mediation allows families to:
- Address concerns calmly, outside of court
- Preserve relationships during a difficult time
- Reach compromises that honor both legal rights and personal values
These disputes don’t have to tear a family apart. Mediation helps preserve family ties while ensuring everyone’s voice is heard.
Is Mediation Right for You?
Mediation works best when:
- You want to stay out of court and avoid unnecessary conflict
- You value preserving long-term family relationships
- You’re willing to listen and work toward a fair solution
- You want to save time and money without sacrificing your rights
Even in difficult family situations, mediation can bring clarity, closure, and a path forward without the stress of a courtroom battle.
We’re Here to Help You Find Peaceful Solutions
At the Law Office of Lisa Marie Fraas Certified Family Law Attorney, we have helped many families in our community navigate divorce, separation, and inheritance issues with dignity and care. We believe in resolving conflict with compassion, not confrontation. We specialize in family-focused mediation, especially in the areas of:
- Divorce and Legal Separation
- Custody and Parenting Plans
- Division of Assets and Debts
- Estate and Inheritance Disputes
If you’re facing a family law issue and want a better way to move forward, we invite you to explore mediation.
Call our office today to schedule a consultation. Let’s find a solution that puts your family and your peace of mind first.

